When Talking Makes It Worse


How to Rewire Your Relationship for Calm and Connection

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FREE LIVE WEBINAR

for committed couples who are tired of having the same fight and know there has to be a better way.

When Talking Makes It Worse

How to Rewire Your Relationship for Calm and Connection

A FREE LIVE WEBINAR

for committed couples who are tired of having the same fight and know there has to be a better way.

Available Dates

12th November 2025 

8:30 PM GMT

14th November 2025

12:30 PM GMT

19th November 2025

7:00 PM GMT

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Available Dates:
12th November 2025 

8:30 PM GMT

14th November 2025

12:30 PM GMT

19th November 2025

7:00 PM GMT

SAVE MY FREE SPOT
 

You love your partner. Your relationship is built on a solid foundation.
But lately, the cracks are starting to show.
Does this feel familiar?

➡️ You try to "talk it out," but within minutes you're stuck in the same old loop, and the conversation just makes things worse.

➡️ One of you shuts down, desperate for space, while the other pushes for a resolution, desperate for connection.

➡️ You walk on eggshells, avoiding certain topics because you know they’re emotional landmines.

➡️ After an argument, you feel more like lonely roommates than a loving team.

You’ve probably thought: "If we could just communicate better, everything would be fine."

 
But what if that's completely wrong?

What if the problem isn't your communication skills at all?

The reason your conversations escalate or shut down isn't because of a lack of love or a lack of effort.

It's a biological problem, not a communication one.

When we feel emotionally threatened by our partner, the logical, loving part of our brain goes offline. Our ancient, reactive brain takes over.

This survival brain doesn't care about your partner's feelings. It only cares about protecting you. And it does this through three predictable responses: Fight, Flight, or Freeze.

You can't talk your way out of a nervous system response. You have to rewire it.

And in this free training, I’m going to show you how.

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In This FREE 60-Minute Masterclass, You Will Discover:

  • The Science of Safety: The simple truth about your nervous system and why it's the real boss in your relationship (and how to get it working for you, not against you).
  • The "Window of Tolerance": How to spot the exact moment a conversation is about to go off the rails—and the simple steps to bring it back to safety before damage is done.
  • Your Attachment Style Uncovered: Are you a Wave, an Island, or an Anchor? Understanding your biological pattern is the key to learning how to regulate and end the escalating fights.
  • The Power of Co-Regulation: Learn how to become a source of calm for your partner in real-time, using simple non-verbal cues that their nervous system understands instantly.
  • How to "Lead With Relief": The #1 technique to stop fights before they even start, ensuring your partner feels safe enough to hear you, even when the topic is difficult.
  • The Rewiring Love Method: An introduction to my 3-step method for moving from a relationship of reaction to one of deep, secure connection.

This webinar is specifically for you if:

  • You're in a committed, long-term relationship and feel stuck, but you're looking for practical tools, not an escape.
  • You're tired of surface-level advice and want to understand the deeper, science-backed reasons behind your conflicts.
  • You believe a more connected, calmer, and more passionate relationship is possible, and you're willing to do the work to get there.
  • You want to stop being managed by your reactive emotions and step into your role as a calm, loving leader in your relationship.

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In This FREE 60-Minute Masterclass, You Will Discover:
  • The Science of Safety: The simple truth about your nervous system and why it's the real boss in your relationship (and how to get it working for you, not against you).
  • The "Window of Tolerance": How to spot the exact moment a conversation is about to go off the rails—and the simple steps to bring it back to safety before damage is done.
  • Your Attachment Style Uncovered: Are you a Wave, an Island, or an Anchor? Understanding your biological pattern is the key to learning how to regulate and end the escalating fights.
  • The Power of Co-Regulation: Learn how to become a source of calm for your partner in real-time, using simple non-verbal cues that their nervous system understands instantly.
  • How to "Lead With Relief": The #1 technique to stop fights before they even start, ensuring your partner feels safe enough to hear you, even when the topic is difficult.
  • The Rewiring Love Method: An introduction to my 3-step method for moving from a relationship of reaction to one of deep, secure connection.

This webinar is specifically for you if:
  • You're in a committed, long-term relationship and feel stuck, but you're looking for practical tools, not an escape.
  • You're tired of surface-level advice and want to understand the deeper, science-backed reasons behind your conflicts.
  • You believe a more connected, calmer, and more passionate relationship is possible, and you're willing to do the work to get there.
  • You want to stop being managed by your reactive emotions and step into your role as a calm, loving leader in your relationship.

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Led by Psychotherapist Naomi Light


Hi, I'm Naomi,

And I need to be honest with you: this work is deeply personal to me. My husband Nick and I nearly became another statistic. We found ourselves on the brink of divorce—stuck in a painful cycle of conflict, misunderstanding, and disconnection. It was in that crisis that my journey truly began.

I went from being a wife in pain to a dedicated student of connection, training as a psychotherapist and couples therapist to find the map that could lead us back to each other.

I discovered that love wasn't enough; we needed a new set of skills. We needed to understand the science of our own nervous systems.

That journey didn't just save my marriage; it became my life's work. The frameworks I teach, like The Rewiring Love Method, aren't just theories from a textbook. They are the hard-won, practical tools that rebuilt my own relationship from the ground up. I know what it's like to feel hopeless, and I know the steps it takes to find your way back to a connection that is calmer, stronger, and more passionate than before.

I am honoured to bring this free training to life and I can’t wait to meet you inside.

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